The User Manual You Never Got
Stop fighting what works for you. Start owning your life.
You've spent your whole life being told you're "too much."
Too chatty. Too picky. Too demanding. Too sensitive. Too intense. So you learned to squeeze yourself into right-sized bubbles. You fight what actually works for you. You call your patterns "flaws" and spend years trying to fix things that were never broken.
But what if you could stop fighting? What if you could figure out how you actually work—and own it?
That's what Own Your Manual is about. Writing the user manual you never got. And finally living your actual size.
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Hi, I'm Tanya
I've spent most of my life being told I was "too much." The yammer light is on. Loose cannon. Can't you just be normal?
Turns out, I'm autistic and have ADHD. And all those things I thought were broken? They were just how I work.
Now I help other people do what I've been doing—stop fighting what works for them and start writing their manuals. Through speaking, coaching, and research, I'm turning years of figuring out how I work into something others can use.
I'm still working on it but I'm done squeezing and ready to live my actual size.
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